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Sources of information on Dementia

Where do I go for guidance on Dementia?

The initial point of contact to access care services for those living with Dementia or Alzheimer’s disease is either their GP (for healthcare solutions) or Adult Social Care services (for most other services).

If you’re concerned about persistent forgetfulness – or memory difficulties of a friend or family member, it’s important to consult a GP. He or she can undertake an initial examination, and then be referred to a memory clinic for further dementia tests.

The types of dementia support available are likely to involve the NHS, Adult Social Care and voluntary agencies. Some examples of dementia services and support for people with dementia include:

  • specialist day centres;
  • memory cafes;
  • respite or short breaks;
  • assistive technology and community alarms;
  • home care;
  • community equipment;
  • extra care, sheltered housing; and
  • carers’ support groups.

Supporting someone living with Dementia

Our article from Brunelcare’s Dementia Care Lead can give you helpful advice on what to do when a loved one has been diagnosed with dementia.

In this piece you’ll find:

  • Why it’s important not to become ‘the carer’ too early
  • Planning for the long-term and the care options available
  • Ways to help the person with dementia retain their independence
  • Ways to help you manage your responses and reactions
  • What simple things you can do to help with their reminiscence
  • Where and how you can find help to support yourself

If you know someone who is worried about their memory, encourage them to visit their GP. The more support you can give someone, the better life with dementia can be, especially in the early years.

With the right support, people can live well with dementia and continue to do the things they enjoy for a number of years following diagnosis.

Focus on the person’s abilities, not their disabilities. Encourage them to continue with hobbies or interests whenever possible; a good understanding of dementia will enable you to communicate and support the person better.

What do they need?

When someone is living with dementia, they need:

  • reassurance that they are still valued, and that their feelings matter;
  • freedom from as much external stress as possible; and
  • appropriate activities and stimulation to help them to remain alert and motivated for as long as possible.

A person living with Dementia is not being deliberately difficult. Often their behaviour is an attempt to communicate. Try to put yourself in their place and understand what they are trying to express and how they might be feeling. Understanding someone’s life history can also help to understand what they may be expressing.

Activities for people with Dementia

Keeping people living with dementia occupied and engaged can help them to manage their symptoms. Finding activities they enjoy and can complete is important to help them feel a sense of purpose and accomplishment.

Some activity ideas to try at home:


Games can be a perfect way to avoid boredom when someone is living with dementia. Specialist Dementia games available can include simplified versions of family favourites, like snakes and ladders or scrabble; reminiscence activities that might spark memories or conversations; and easy word search books.


Crafts like drawing, painting or cutting and sticking can be a great pastime for anyone living with Dementia, no matter how advanced their symptoms. Adult colouring books are widely available, but you can also get simpler books that might have more familiar images.

Depending on the stage of the person’s dementia, you might want to consider ‘painting with water’ sets. These are sheets of paper which you paint water onto to reveal a colourful image. Some are reusable as, when they dry, the image disappears.

There are many other craft activities suitable for people with Dementia. Including making collages, activities using different textures, and modelling using playdough or modelling clay.


There are puzzles designed especially for people with dementia. These usually have between 10 and 70 large pieces that form a traditional puzzle image. If your relative enjoys jigsaws, this activity could stimulate them without being too complex to complete. The completed pictures are appropriate for adults and cover many themes.


Sensory activities can be an extremely calming pastime for people with Dementia. You can buy games that use smells to trigger memories, or you can buy or make a ‘fiddle muff’ if the person struggles with fidgeting.


Music is widely recognised as a great way to engage people living with all stages of Dementia. Any music can help, from playing a favourite CD to creating a personalised playlist of songs that are associated with happy memories. If the person with dementia lives alone, consider a simple radio with very few buttons for ease of use. Even singing a favourite song can be an opportunity to connect.

Household tasks

If the person with Dementia shows interest, let them carry out tasks around the house. Anything like folding towels to laying the table or washing up can help them to feel a sense of accomplishment and purpose.

Be prepared that, depending on the level of their symptoms, the tasks may not be completed perfectly. Try not to see it as them ‘helping’ you with chores, just support them to enjoy the experience.

Ultimately, when introducing activities, be led by the person with Dementia. Whatever they choose to do should be enjoyable and engaging. What is of interest one day, may not be the next.

Consider how the person with dementia feels about certain activities and what they may have enjoyed in the past. Try to remember that some people can become frustrated by tasks that require completion if they are unable to complete them.

Dementia day centres

In the earlier stages of Dementia, day care support can offer vital help.

A good day opportunity will be able to offer a range of activities and support that enable the person with Dementia to retain skills and remain part of their local community.

Specialist day care for people with Dementia should be organised and run with the needs of people with Dementia in mind, aiming to build on their strengths and abilities. Activities will vary but may include outings, entertainment, personal care, meals, hairdressing and support for carers.

Attendance at day centres can be offered from just a few hours a week to a number of days. 

Memory Cafés

Memory Cafés, also known as Dementia Cafés are another place for those with Alzheimer’s and their carers to go. They provide a safe space to socialise, listen to music, play games and enjoy other appropriate activities, in addition, to being also a good place to exchange information and find support.

Click here to view our list of Memory Cafés. 

Respite care for Dementia

Spouses, partners and relatives who care for a person with Dementia can have an assessment and may need a break from caring.

This is known as ‘respite care’, as usually takes the form of a regular short break, anywhere from a few hours a week up to a period of a few weeks. It may be planned or be required in an emergency.

Regular respite care might involve the person with dementia attending a day centre or a care worker visiting the person’s home to give the carer a break.

If the relative caring for a person wishes to go on holiday or is unable to care because of illness or an emergency, a period of respite care may be provided in a care home or a care worker may provide care in the person’s own home.

Use our Search for Care tool to find respite services that specialise in looking after those with dementia.

Dementia home care

People with Dementia may struggle in new environments and may function better and be more content in the familiar surroundings of their own home.

If homecare is an option, Adult Social Care or the home care provider can assess the person’s needs and a support plan can be drawn up. The person with dementia should participate as fully as possible in the assessment and planning. If they are unable to participate, family members can assist or an advocate may be required.

The person with Dementia will respond best to stable care staff who know them well. Continuity of care can be provided with either care agencies or carers employed directly by the person or their family.

Staff can be employed if the person pays privately or receives a direct payment from Adult Social Care to contribute towards their care.

Find dementia homecare services

Dementia care homes

According to the Alzheimer’s Society, one-third of people with Dementia live-in care homes, and more than two-thirds of care home residents have Dementia or memory problems.

Having Dementia doesn’t change who the person is, each person with Dementia is a unique individual with their own emotional, physical and social needs as well as hopes, aspirations and values.

Meeting these needs with an individually tailored care plan enables the person to experience the best possible quality of life. A good care home will offer a person-centred approach to Dementia care. This means that the unique qualities and interests of each individual will be identified, understood and accounted for in any care planning.

The person with Dementia will have an assessment and an ongoing personalised care plan agreed across health and social care that identifies a named care coordinator and addresses their individual needs.

Those with Dementia must also have the opportunity to discuss and make decisions together with their carers about:

  • The uses of advance statements
  • Advance decisions to refuse treatment
  • Lasting Power of Attorney
  • Preferred Priorities of Care.

Are you looking for a care home that offers specialist Dementia care?

One size doesn’t fit all

It is important that care and support options are tailored as one size does not fit all. Some options can work well for one individual but prove to be stressful and unsuitable for another person.

What you can do

In order to help the person with Dementia feel more comfortable in their surroundings, you can:

  • Ensure staff can get to know the person with Dementia by telling staff about their likes and dislikes.
  • Making sure the individual has belongings that bring comfort and have meaning can also help them settle in.
  • Providing life-story books can be a good way of helping the staff and the individual to recall details.

What staff can do

Within the home itself, much of the environment is down to the attitude and skills of the manager and staff:

  • Do they try to enable those with Dementia to exercise choice and personal preferences even in later stages of their condition?
  • Who is the person in charge of championing Dementia care best practice in the home?

Dementia-specific training is needed to ensure care home staff have an understanding of how best to support and care for people with Dementia.

The design of a care home specialising in Dementia care should be based on small group living, preferably with accommodation on one level. Opportunities to go in and out of the building should be within a safe and accessible environment.

Plenty of natural light and an easy way of finding one’s way around the building and grounds are essential for minimising disorientation.

Dementia Friends

People with Dementia sometimes need a helping hand to go about their daily lives and feel included in their community. Dementia Friends is an initiative to change people’s perception of dementia.

They help people gain an understanding of dementia and the small things they can do to make a difference to those with the condition. This can be anything from helping someone find the right bus to spreading the word about dementia.

Visit www.dementiafriends.org.uk for additional information.

Dementia Guides

View our dedicated Dementia Publications here.

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